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You thought the terrible two’s were bad…just wait for teen rebellion to set in. Because teens are experience hormonal fluxuations then can be the ultimately best-behaved child in the room one day and then fly into rages the next.
While some mood swings are perfectly normal, if the anti-social or defiant behavior extends for long periods of time, there may be a behavior disorder in play. However, parents who are involved with their children can help them navigate through this difficult time.
As parents, you need to listen to your child. Try to understand his or her point of view, as well as what is important to him. Allowing open channels of communication will help you understand the cause of potential rebellion.
Don’t be wishy-washy. Rules that have been set down need to be consistently enforced. In actuality, teenagers actually respond better when they know exactly what is expected of them because they have no questions about appropriate behavior.
Discuss values and morals. Help them distinguish between appropriate and inappropriate behavior. By clearly understanding the difference, teens can then learn to model their behaviors as well creating the best response to difficult situations.
Allow a bit of distance when your teen is having a bad day or a bad day. This is a good thing for parents to do as long as the teen is not being destructive or could potential harm himself or others.
Establish a good rapport with your teen’s teachers, so if problems arise, you can work as a team to provide support.
